Swinging in Playa Del Carmen

…getting your swinging game on in Playa…

People keep sending me messages asking whether there are swingers groups in Playa Del Carmen.

Before Playa Del Carmen, the only thing I knew about swinging was a few terrible rounds of golf – and of course my childhood memories of falling off swing sets at the playground.

My buddies always said that nobody would want my swing.

Within Playa there are reports of swingers clubs.

But around this area, there are some full on swingers meetups.

Unfortunately, most of the swinging events take place at adults only resorts that cater to a more open-minded clientele.

Lucky for you, I’ve been doing some research and have found out all the information you need if you’re a bonafide swinger.

But if you’re a single male then you should leave your swinging to the rope above one of the cenotes (as seen in the picture at the bottom).

Swingers / Swinging In a Nutshell – The Short of It

  1. Although there are several swinging groups in the area, most of them don’t appear to be too active – from what I can tell.
  2. If you are on vacation and want to participate in professional, hosted, and swinger-type events, you’ll probably want to stay at one of the themed resorts mentioned below.
  3. The advantage of the resorts is that they are very close to Playa Del Carmen, AND they offer all of the amenities and luxuries of the more well-known brand-name exclusive resorts.

Can I Meet Up With Individual Swingers In Playa Del Carmen?

That’s hard to say. Chances are it’s probably NOT going to happen.

There are some listings for swingers here but it’s hard to judge whether the information is up to date.

The locals are quite shy about adding photos, so it’s difficult to make a decision about whether to meet up.

Really, it is best to have a meeting place that caters to this alternative lifestyle. Swinger couples don’t usually walk around with an ostentatious sign on their foreheads saying “I AM A SWINGER” in large red letters.

Also, you never know what you’re getting yourself into, so I would stick to the major resorts that have games, activities, and an environment built for adventurous adults.

So Is There A Swingers Community?

On Facebook there is a Swingers Playa Del Carmen. (YOU WILL NEED TO JOIN THE GROUP.)

But it’s not kept very up to date. You could send them a message and see what response you got.

After all, you never know if you don’t try.

Years and years ago it was common to see hippies on the beaches here.

And there was always a few of them naked.

People tell me that a lot of swinging went on back in those days.

What a shame that they’ve replaced it with a golf course.

I’m An Avid Swinger And Want Something More Certain?

If you strike out contacting any of the Swingers groups in the area (which is very likely), then you are a little bit short on options.

However, if you are an eternal optimist (like me after a six-pack of Coronas), then there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Although I have never done any swinging myself, I’m going to introduce you to someone that I met through a friend.

She is one hell of a party girl.

Most importantly, she has a lot of connections around town and can help you find what you’re looking for.

So, please let me introduce…

Meet Maddison- Playa Del Carmen’s Party Girl & Swinger Connection

woman-saying-be-quietI was once riding my bike around Playacar. And, no, it wasn’t one of those Pee-Wee Herman bikes that you see around town. (Unfortunately, it has since been stolen.)

Just off one of the bike paths there was a woman selling “Bird Sanctuary Tours.”

As I was new in town, I stopped to talk to her. (Hell with it….Why lie? She had a pretty face and nice boobs.) Her name was Elizabeth.

To make a long story short, I told her I had just moved to Playa Del Carmen. I soon found out she had a boyfriend. Then, out of the blue, she mentioned she had a single friend. Her friend’s name was Sara, but went by the name Sarita, which means “Litte Sara” in Spanish.

I met Sarita several weeks later. We hung out for a few hours. Unfortunately, there was no real chemistry between us, so I essentiaaboutorgot…. Damn smartphones. What I meant to say was that I essentially forgot about her.

Honestly, the women in Playa Del Carmen can be a little bit difficult to figure out. First of all, they’re from everywhere. But even more importantly, you’re dealing with this weird collage of cultures that can complicate things.

About two months later, as I was walking out of a local convenience store, I suddenly heard, “Rufus! How are you?” I looked to my right and there was Sarita, the woman I had met through Elizabeth. However, she was not alone.

After talking to Sarah for several minutes, she introduced her friend – Maddison. I found out Maddison was a massage therapist. Thus, a few weeks later, when I was researching my page about Playa Del Carmen massages, her image appeared vividly in my mind. I consulted with her as I begin to compose the article.

However, what I have found out again and again from working on this website is that people really open up to you when you start asking questions. It’s almost as if they assume you’re some sort of news reporter and they want to squeeze everything they can into the “interview” time together.

So what I found out about Maddison was very interesting –

  • She began her career as a massage therapist
  • She expanded her career by studying other forms of massage – Tantric massage, weight reduction-related massage, erotic massage, etc.
  • She has worked in a number of exclusive resorts in the area, the massage houses on Fifth Avenue, and even at some of the most exclusive beach clubs in Playa Del Carmen.

Needless to say, she knows a lot of people in the area.

Moreover, she has also delved into and experienced some of the alternative lifestyles around town firsthand.

I’m not going to get into details. I will let you save that for your conversation with her. However, I will say that she is an open-minded person who you can talk to about anything.

So, why did I put her on this page? I put her here for the following reasons:

  • She knows a lot of women/men in town
  • She has girlfriends who are into both men and couples
  • She can likely set you up with the kind of girls/guys you’re looking for
  • From my experience, I believe that she is an honest person. Trust me – that means a lot when you’re visiting a foreign country, and Playa Del Carmen is no exception.

So, if you’d like to get in touch with Maddison, I’ve made it extremely easy..

You can contact her by filling out the form below:



A Few Other Options For Swingers In the Playa Del Carmen Area

If you don’t mind being a short distance from Playa Del Carmen, then you will be able to meet up with other swingers.

How? At one of the couples-only, clothing optional, 21+ adult resorts. Awesome!

They’re mainly located closer to Cancun – but two of them are only ~25 minutes from Playa Del Carmen.

The places with the most action are the following three adults-only resorts:

They all have themed/nightly entertainment. Moreover, they are 21+ AND couples only, as I mentioned above.

Clothing is optional at all of them as well. (Beavis and Butthead would have gone insane in one of these places, believe me!)

At night the staff put on games like Battle of the Sexes and The Corn Hole Tournament.

Games with names like this must be over-the-top entertaining.

All three of the resorts above are very elegant properties and offer sophisticated experiences that can be very erotic.


This Sounds A Bit Intense. What If You’re Not Sure About Swinging?

If you are curious about swinging then the Desire Pearl is a better choice – and it’s closer to Playa Del Carmen, and further away from the Snake’s Nest – A.K.A. Cancun. (NOTE: “Cancun” actually means “Snake’s Nest” in the Mayan language).

It’s less full-on than the other resorts.

Still, you could take yourself into the Sin Room, a couples-only orgy room where you can participate–or just watch with your partner.

It’s an extremely deluxe hotel and resort, and has been set up to help you relax and keep your mind open.

So if you’re a swinger, your most definite choices are to stay in these high end resorts where everything has been geared up for swinging.

If you’re really lusting after some non-commercial contacts, there are sometimes listings of individual swingers in some of the local periodicals, but they are rarely willing to give away anything without the involvement of money


Who Should I Contact?

I hope this information on swinging is more useful than the advice I could give about how to hit a golf ball.

For more contact information, you can try any of the following links:



Anything Else?

If you’re a single male reading this and thinking that Playa Del Carmen is awash with some easy-to-get sex, then your only choice is to work the hotspots (clubs and bars) around town.

However, if you’re a cute and sexy couple hunting for other like-minded couples, the three resorts mentioned above are exactly what you’re looking for!

Bona fide swingers always have options, so don’t worry.

My advice is to get in contact with the resorts I mentioned above during the early planning phase of your trip.

Good luck and happy swinging…

Lots of love,


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